Stop trying to be perfect #GrownLadyTalk

#GrownLadyTalk

It’s okay if you haven’t washed the dishes today or if that load of laundry from last week is still not done. It’s okay if you’ve only completed 99 or even 2 of the 100’s of things on your list. Exhale. It’s really okay!

As women, somehow we believe we must do everything…all the time and quite honestly, many of you are miserable because of it. You try to be the best mother, the best wife, the best co-worker, the best dish washer, the best laundry folder, the best cook, and even the best friend! Whew! That’s a lot of pressure for just one YOU.

You are only one person, and that one person deserves to live her BEST LIFE! So do you really want to be happy? Then begin to live the best version of yourself by stop trying to perfect!

I love you but NO! #grownladytalk

#grownladytalk

When you understand just how valuable you are…you become unwilling to disrespect your time, your heart, or your resources. It becomes easier to say Yes to YOU even when that means saying No to someone you love… because you matter too.

If you are the person that does everything for everyone or if you’ve ever had difficulty setting boundaries in the past, let’s practice this together, comment below “I love you but NO!”

My Happiness Matters! #GrownLadyTalk

#GrownLadyTalk

Losing custody of my son when he was only 2 years old had a profound effect on how I made decisions for a very long time. I blamed myself for being so trusting and felt foolish because I believed that I should have seen it coming. I was angry with myself for such a long time…

Thankfully I’ve grown.

When I finally let go of the negative beliefs, I began to thrive and have positive outcomes that gave me a new lease on life! I’ve learned how to make sound decisions, not based on past experiences or guilt but guided by love and with a free heart. You don’t realize how heavy a weight is until you let it go!

It’s time for you to thrive! What are you still holding on to?

If you are ready to be kinder to yourself and show the world a happier you, comment below, “My Happiness Matters!”